The Urban Dictionary beautifully defines the 3 day rule as "A rule used by douchebag guys who think that waiting three days after a date to call means that the girl will want them more, when really it just pisses them off"
Not only does he then go on to ask if it is ok for him to call on the 2nd day, but if calling before 5pm is alright. SERIOUSLY?!? I proceeded with curiosity to ask why 5pm, why not now? His response was call at 11:49am? Not that he had something to do or appointments that keep him busy until 5pm which would make sense why he couldn't make a phone call to a girl that I am starting to already believe he's not that into.
To my friend and all men out there who play this 3 day rule or any numbers game (including multiplying/dividing how many people you have slept with to mask the real number; men divide by three, woman multiply by 3) I say quit while you're ahead. What's wrong with being interested and calling when the person is on your mind, which is what I advised my friend to do. Call at 11:49am for crying out loud. For once you might actually impress a girl by letting her know you were thinking of her and couldn't wait to hear her voice again. Be real. Drop all the games. When people are real that is when you really find what you are looking for and not games to fill voids.
Although don't take this literal declaration that games are not fun, intriguing, or exciting....I am just saying that games don't always lead to long term success because at one point in the game there is going to be a winner and a loser. Since when have you watched a football game or baseball game where you go into the last quarter or inning with a tie and both teams decide hey lets shake on it and call it a day....Yeah I don't think so.
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